Barbara
Connaughton Pendergrast
May 08, 1950 Jul 28, 2016
Visitation
Location
Affinity Funeral Service
Date
Thu, August 04, 2016
Time
2 : 00 PM – 4 : 00 PM
Funeral Service
Location
St. Bridget Catholic Church
Date
Fri, August 05, 2016
Time
11 : 00 AM – 12 : 00 AM
Visitation
Location
Affinity Funeral Service
Date
Thu, August 04, 2016
Time
6 : 00 PM – 8 : 00 PM
Obituary message
PENDERGRAST, Barbara Connaughton went to be with long lost family and friends on Thursday, July 28, 2016, surrounded by those here on earth. “My greatest joy in life was being a mother and mentoring other mothers through my nursing career. I only hope God has a similar plan for me. I’ll be there when you get there-we will sit on a Maui beach with warm breezes, sip a tropical drink with a joyous song in our hearts because that is what life is about. I was given a wonderful life and now it’s time to give it back. The bucket list is complete and I no longer choose to battle a cancer that doesn’t know when to quit – despite my Irish stubbornness.” Barbara’s loved ones include her husband of 44 years, David Linton Pendergrast; daughters Amanda Pendergrast Garthright and Kathryn Pendergrast Stevens (Robert); sons Michael Edward Pendergrast (Jennifer) and Patrick Linton Pendergrast (Megan). Grandchildren were her pure treasures and include William, Zoe and Lucy Stevens; Holden, Gavin and Avery Garthright; and Aiden and Liam Pendergrast. Barbara is also survived by her mother, Mrs. Pauline Connaughton of Woodbridge, VA; sisters Lorraine Connaughton, Diane Halloran (Michael) and Carol Earle (Joseph); brothers, Edward Connaughton and Paul Connaughton (Mary Beth); and many beloved nieces and nephews. Barbara was preceded in death by her father, Edward Joseph Connaughton of Woodbridge, VA. Born in Brooklyn, New York, Barbara traveled extensively during her father’s military career. She settled in Virginia in 1964 considering it her forever home. Barbara graduated with a Bachelor’s Degree in Nursing from the Medical College of Virginia in 1971 and served as a nurse in the United States Navy. She had a career that spanned 44 years providing nursing care for new mothers. Barbara loved fine wines, the color lavender, and traveling particularly to Italy, Maui and Las Vegas. However, she was just as content being at home and cooking for her large and loving family. The family will meet with friends on Thursday, August 4th from 2 to 4 pm and 6 to 8 pm at Affinity Funeral Service, 2720 Enterprise Pkwy, Richmond, Virginia 23294. A rosary will be said at 6:30 pm on the night of visitation. A Funeral Mass will be held at 11 am Friday, August 5th at St. Bridget Catholic Church, 6006 Three Chopt Road, Richmond, Virginia 23226. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to the American Cancer Association in her name.
All my love Mom. I am relieved that you are now in Heaven wth your Dad and many others we have lost. You showed me all along to have a brave and kind heart, forgive often and live in gratitude. I love you.
A precious lady that I had the privilege of knowing and working with at HDH. A WONDERFUL PERSON AND A GREAT NURSE! Prayers and Blessings to you her family.
Dear Amanda, Kathryn, and family, please accept our deepest sympathy in the loss of your beautiful Mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May God comfort you with His grace, love, and peace. We love you so much. Judy and Tom Fernald (friends from Tuckahoe Elementary School)
Amanda, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. { know that the love I see you shower on your own children is a result of the warmth and affection from your own mom. She gave you an example to follow in her life. I am so sad for your loss.Janet Howell
You were a very special person. You fought the good fight against the cancer, but now you are at peace. I will miss you, Cuz. Until we meet again, rest in peace with the angels and our family. Love you.
Marla Carpenter lit a candle for Barbara Connaughton Pendergrast
Naomi Wheeless lit a candle for Barbara Connaughton Pendergrast
To the family, allow me to extend my deepest sympathies. Though I may not have known Barbara myself, I have been privileged to know her daughter Amanda and can attest to how awesome of a job she did in raising such a beautiful spirit. My thoughts and prayers are forever with you.
Our deepest sympathies go out to you all. Mrs. P was a beautiful person who raised a wonderful family. We are glad to have known her all these years. We will keep you all in our prayers.
AmandaYou have my deepest sympathyI am here for you
Cheryl-Ann Young lit a candle for Barbara Connaughton Pendergrast
Amanda,
Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of your mom. I know she was a special lady because she raised you to be one as well. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in the coming days.
Sincerely,
Carla Henderson
The staff of the American Cancer Association and American Cancer Fund® at http://www.AmericanCancerFund.org is sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. We have just received a memorial donation in her name and our sincere condolences go out to her family.