Carly Jo Royer
Apr 14, 1994Mar 23, 2019
Carly Jo Royer, 24, passed away Saturday, March 23, 2019. With love and courage, her tender spirit left this earth after a determined fight against illness and she did so on her own terms. She was surrounded by her large circle of friends and family as she moved from here back to our Heavenly Father. Survivors include her parents, Thomas and Susan Royer; brother, Evan Royer; and grandmother, Joyce Royer. She was preceded in death by her grandmother, Edith Miller; and grandfathers, Kelly Miller and John Royer. Carly loved animals and volunteered for seven years at the Richmond Animal League. In her short life, Carly touched so many with her positive, inclusive, and strong character. Innately wise, she blessed others and led quietly. Truly beautiful inside and out she exemplified God’s love for us by being a steady, genuine, forgiving, unbiased, merciful giver and friend to others before herself. Heroically and gracefully she fought her illness with the dedicated incredible caring staff at VCU Medical Center, whom the family appreciated and thanks. A celebration of life will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, March 29, at Central Baptist Church in Chesterfield. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service. So, fly away home to the Father, sweetest Princess Carly. This universe is brighter because you danced in it!
What a beautiful young lady! Please know you have been and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. May you be truly blessed with many wonderful memories of Carly. In God’s care and love.
I’ll be coming along with mother and possibly my boyfriend for support.
Carly you were, and are, truly loved. Unfortunately I was not around you as you grew up but enjoy following the family on FB. Give my brother a hug for me. Knowing you are together is a great comfort.
Carly…I know you are at peace now and in the living arms of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. I knew your Grandparents, Kelly & Edith Miller very well and I don’t know if your mother will remember me, but we “grew up” at Manchester Baptist Church together. I pray for the comfort and peace that surpasses all understanding that only God can give for all family members left to mourn your passing. R.I.P. sweet girl.
Susan – I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful Carly. Keeping your family in my heart as you mourn her passing and praying that the love, peace and comfort of God, friends and family is with you during this difficult time.
Carly was a most special young lady with an amazing future ahead of her before this tragedy. She will be greatly missed.
I am the mother of one of Carly’s friends who always said there was no truer friend than Carly. My love to you all as you mourn your loss.
Tommy, my sister just called to tell me of your loss and I’m sure my mom will be phoning soon. I am so so sorry for you all. I was fortunate enough to have met Evan but never Carly. So beautiful and so young. Sending your family love and prayers from myself and my family. Karen ‘Ladd’ Russell
Susie, Tommy, Evan and Grandma – Andy and I were so devastated to hear the news of Carly’s passing. There was no sweeter little girl than your precious, shy baby. I’ll always cherish the memories of her giggles and whispers in Kristin’s ear whenever she wanted to tell me something!! Lol. She was a delightful child!! And beautiful inside and out like her pretty mommy! I’m so sorry we lost touch over the years and miles, but your family has never been far from our thoughts. You will remain in them and in our prayers until we meet again. We join you in thanking our Lord for sharing Carly with the world for a while and know that He has lovingly welcomed her to her Heavenly home. Xxxooo, Becky and Andy
Spirit and beauty bright with hair so white, quiet as new fallen snow.
Too soon to part with your strong, loving heart, sweet dreams to Miss Carly Jo.
And Peace to the loved ones you left behind praying that their hearts will mend
Resting assured that she is with our Lord until you all meet again.
Susie, I only met you once and never had the pleasure of meeting your beautiful Carly. I did have the pleasure of you and your sister Cathy telling me all about her. After seeing her picture in the paper today, she looks like an angel that God has welcomed into Heaven with open arms. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers to somehow help mend your broken hearts. I will be planting a flower in your Mom’s garden (6601 Bel Lac) in Carly’s sweet memory.
I knew Carly as a quiet, shy child who graced us with her warm smile and kind spirit. She was soft spoken but had a tender heart and a quiet, peaceful nature about her. I was also blessed to have known and worked with her grandmother at Hening Elementary school, and we spoke of how our relationship had come full circle. It is said that some people come into our lives for a season. Carly graced my life for a season, and she will never be forgotten. My prayers are with her family for that peace that surpasses all understanding.
I’ll never forget the love I had for Carly as well as all the love she had for everyone surrounding her. She’ll be here with us, smiling down when the blooms of spring first emerge and as the leaves begin to fall and the cold snaps of winter break through our jackets. She’ll fill our hearts with love with every giggle and grin we share with each other. She’ll look down with our maker as we cry and stumble through the turmoils the world faces us with. I’ll never forget her smile and compassion and her endless love for everyone she met. She was beautiful, even in her last moments. She loved fiercely and felt deeply, I’ll miss you for the rest of my time on this planet, but I know you wouldn’t want us to be sad but to remember the beautiful times we’ve all had.
Back in 1987 when my Mom Esther died, Joyce sent me a letter saying something that has stuck with me and been helpful to me many times since then. She said that when someone dies, we not only get to keep our memories of them, but all the ways in which knowing them has changed us remain with us as well. All the ways we’re different because of having had them in our lives, all the things we’ve learned from them–it’s all ours to keep. In this way they’ll remain a part of us as long as we live. So even though Carly’s gone in person now, she’ll remain a part of you in all the ways that are meaningful to you. My heart goes out to each of you. Love, Cousin Cathy
Suzi and Family, Joan and I are unable to express our sadness and sympathy for you with Carly’s passing. As you know, she always had “Mr. Rucker duty” during teacher planning week at RMS. She was so helpful and hard-working in helping this old guy unpack all the boxes and set up his classroom. I’ll never forget your lovely, sweet, classy daughter. Our hearts are breaking for all her many friends and loved ones. Please know how many people care and that Carly will always be alive in so many hearts and minds until you are together again.
Susi and family, Laurie and I just found out about Carly. While we didn’t know Carly very well, she clearly had a positive impact on the lives of others, including animals, and made the most of her short time here. We’re sure you are proud of Carly and everything she stood for in this life, and we take comfort in knowing that she is watching over all of you.