Christopher “CJ” Jacob Seay
August 14, 2002 – June 14, 2022
Christopher “CJ” Jacob Seay, 19, of Chester, Va. unexpectedly went to be with the Lord and His Angels on Tuesday, June 14, 2022.
As a beautiful boy who turned into a wonderful, kind, polite, young man, he was adored by many his family and friends. CJ’s smile was as big as the sun as his long hair is golden. He loved to joke around to make people laugh and smile. His sense of humor was one of a kind. CJ showed acts of kindness in the simplest things he did. His unexpected knocks will be extremely missed. CJ attended Thomas Dale High School and Carver Academy.
CJ was the beloved son to Christopher Seay and Veronica Jacob, born on August 14, 2002. Protected brother to Trinity Seay and Justice Cooke. He also leaves behind his grandparents, Doug Sea and , Joseph and Nancy Jacob; his step-mother, Karen Cooke-Seay; his aunt and uncles, Sammy Seay, Dougie Seay, Audry Mitchell, Patrick Garrett and Chucky Hayes; twelve cousins; and many friends and family. He will forever be missed. He is preceded in death by his grandmothers, Deborah Seay and Helen Jacob.
A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date.
My dear nephew you will be missed but not forgotten. We will remember all the good times we had of you growing up and becoming a young man. You will always be loved and thought of in our prayers. Till we meet again.
Tammy and Lane you will be missed by all of us
I dont think that I would ever be writing this cj, kinda thought it would have been me ya know, I always imagined you would grow up and forget about me but now I’m gonna grow up without u and knowing that is the most horrible feeling in the word word really don’t describe that, you said the night before you were so high u thought u saw heaven and what death felt like… I should have asked u what it looked like because I have so many questions yo I feel so angry at u but I can’t be because those questions I’m not going to ask the more I try to investigate the more and more I picture your face then it turns into a picture of you now and it’s the most messed up thing it doesn’t make since honestly life took you too soon I don’t even know why or how it was necessary but it wasn’t god didn’t need more angel did he? Are u with grandma right now? Is she rubbing your hair and being the amazing woman she was￼, saying it’s gonna be okay you’ll see them again,? Are u actually able to see me? Do u see my tears yo u said you wouldn’t know what to do if u lost me I don’t know what I doing now yo. This is so messed up. I know u tho you once said “that sadness goes away after working hard on yourself and your health you’ll start to love yourself and surround urself w successful people it’s not going to come instantly but it will come over time, the pain is temporary and u can’t b mad when people kno what your doing and don’t want to help I’ve been through it too” u said this 10 days before u passed away, you were the sweetest yo, you changed for the better and some people never saw that, u were proud of your self u said “im gonna keep it 100 with you because i’m not the same person as before if I tell u sum it’s not to hurt ur feelings it to motivate u to do better” I’m gonna do what u said to do I promise and I’ma go back to school to even if I hate it it’s what u wanted u wanted me to get clean and I haven’t touch anything but weed… Cj I’m glad u saw heaven that meant it was somewhere u wanted to go and that means a lot to me. You were a Leo a lion and u were the strongest person and best friend I could of had and god gave me that gift. I would trade a lifetime with someone else for the time I had left with u just to feel your hugs feel how loving and caring u were i would take a million pictures with u and then I wouldn’t stopped it from happening but the future is set and so is the past because we can’t change it and it sucks but ur always gonna be with me U died the same day and exactly a month before ur birthday was heaven a good gift? I hope so because I want it to and I wanna lay my head on ur shoulder and cry n feel u kiss my forehead because u were raised to respect women and U were supposed to protect you… I was supposed to do the same. I’m sorry baby boy I won’t ever forget u…can everyone please look up at the sky Tomorrow and pray for him tell him it’s gonna be ok and hes gonna like it there with all the weed in the world to smoke. look at the sky at 4:20 blaze it up for him rest in peace big bro I saw the lightning last night I knew it was u, don’t cry we’ll all be okay just rest chill wit grandma and smoke it up I’ll be up there soon okay love you miss u so much I’ll never forget you till the day I die then we will be together I love you Rest In Peace baby boy u always knew what to say ima keep my head up for u Angel 🐅🦋🌟🕊08/14/02- 06/14/22 Christophe Jacob Seay the best big brother I could have asked for 🌟⛈🥀💸🪦🔒💔❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🤍🖤✝️ #bandruguse #stickmanthelegend #christopherjacobseay #yeooooooo #stickmanlivesforever /// Visual will be held some time later this week please stay connected and in contact
I’m so sorry for you & your fams lost lil shorty I can only imagine how it for real feels but well put you & all the family & friends are in my prayers🙏🙏✝️✝️
Cj I cannot believe this is true. You made me so mad at times that I couldn’t even think straight and other times you were so respectful and loving. I remember the first time I met you, you had stayed the night at my house with Lexus. I was out in the garage and you and Lexus came out there and I was giving her hell about failing gym and asking how that was possible and it was starting to get heated between her and I and you chimed in and said “well I failed yearbook”. It was like your way of getting us to stop arguing without actually saying stop. I remember looking at you and I couldn’t even be mad anymore and I laughed and asked how do you fail yearbook that I thought that was something you volunteered for. I didn’t even wait for a reply I just got up she walked out laughing saying “failed yearbook”. You know I never really had to worry about Lexus because I knew you would protect her no matter if you were together or not cuz you two loved each other so much! You and her were like in your own little bubble and you didn’t pay attention to anyone around you. You know I told you several times that the only reason I was mad at you was because of your decisions that I wanted better for you and that I wanted you to want better for you. I told you no one wants to see anyone with so much potential waste it making stupid choices! The last time we talked you promised me that you had grown up and that you were never going back there again and telling me how much you love Lexus and how you are gonna do all these things and prove that you had changed and that you would never hurt Lexus again. I have yelled at you this past week, I have cried my eyes out, I have looked for signs, I asked God why, and now I guess it’s time to say till we meet again! I hope you are ok and I hope you know how greatly missed you will be! Oh and I never got to pick on you for the time you went to cut the grass and you was man handling the lawn mower rather than pushing it. Tom and I watched you in the video camera wondering where you learned to cut grass because we have never seen anyone pick up a lawn mower while it’s running and carry it to the next spot they are cutting! So I’m gonna say goodbye just like every conversation we ended “I love you, Cj be good!”
I remember the day you were born. I wasn’t at the hospital but your Aunt was and then I met you a few days to weeks later. My memories of you don’t really involve the man you became but more of the happiness you brought your parents and family. Except a couple Easter egg hunts. My heart is hurting for all who lost you. May the family have prayers that may bring them some peace.
Cj lil bro I couldn’t even believe or take it in right when I heared you were taken from us it hit me like a ton of bricks basicly burying me bro you was the humblest nicest most real lil bro when I met you as a young kid I also seen success intelligence ect to point you were goin to be bigger then life it’s self and it sucks that your life was taking but I feel like it was for the better bc the best ppl like you are taking way to early bro and I feel for your family sisters mom dad uncjes and friends but know this I’m live for you like alot of others are goin to just do us this favor like I know you will fly higher then any angel can possible and guard who really really needs it bro rip cj a.k.a Jacob Seaye like idk what I miss the most about you bc there was so many good positive great things about you lil brother
Happy birthday son! I love you and I miss you unbelievably. You’re in my thoughts every single day. There’s a special place in my home for you and therefore you are close to me. I love you so much. Happy birthday!
Love you forever, mom
Miss you everyday. I love you.
Miss you everyday. I love you.
I miss you kid where is can I explain life shit would be easier by the night. It’s harder and harder every day whether I prove my life or not, but would you want it with me to improve my life and work on myself and I’ll do just that even if it’s by myself I’ll do it.
I feel like I still see you. Everywhere. I miss you man. I love you. Most of all I’m sorry, I knew your potential. I knew egat you were made of. Greatness and I’ll always nlsne myself , being someone you look up to, for not steering you in the right path. Forever in my heart little brother. I look at my son and idk how to explain it but I know you watch over us. Red roses 🌹