In Loving

Lola Patricia Miller

May 18, 1938-February 29, 2020

Lola Patrica (nee Harris) Miller, 81, of North Chesterfield, died February 29, 2020.  Pat was predeceased by her parents, Katherine Lucile (nee Cooper) and Eldon Lafayette Harris; and brother, Marvon Eldon Harris, all of Clinton, Tennessee.

Pat is survived by her husband of 59 years, David Edward “Pete” Miller; daughter Katherine M. Jones (Eric); sons, David Edward Miller III and Kevin Dwight Miller (Priya); and eight grandchildren.

Pat graduated from St. Marys Hospital School of Nursing in Knoxville, Tennessee. She stopped working until her three children were all in school and then worked until she was 78 years old spending the last 25 years of her career as the 3-11 nursing supervisor at The Virginia Home.

Her memorial service will be at 10 am Saturday, July 17th at Christ the King Lutheran Church, 9800 West Huguenot Rd., Richmond, VA 25235. A non-seated luncheon will follow.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Christ the King Lutheran Church, The Virginia Home, Capital Caring Hospice, or the charity of your choice.

Pat will be greatly missed by all who knew her because the vast majority of them also loved her.




  1. Cheryl Cross March 4, 2020 at 10:50 am - Reply

    Pat was my sweet friend and kind neighbor for many years. My deep sympathy to her family. I will miss her.

  2. Signe M Langschultz March 4, 2020 at 5:26 pm - Reply

    We were neighbors for many years on Chiswick Rd. My memories are good and many. She. was always available to help when needed. I know she will be missed by many.

  3. Marie Matthews-Hayes March 6, 2020 at 6:55 am - Reply

    Pat was my nursing supervisor and dear friend. She was a kind and compassionate person. We shared a lot of stories about us both having family in Tennessee. Her laughter was contagious. She will be missed by many. As she was loved by all who knew her.

  4. Nancy sue Cantrell Romerdahl March 6, 2020 at 9:31 pm - Reply

    My dear cousin. We were kids together and I will miss her.

  5. Don Harris March 7, 2020 at 9:16 pm - Reply

    Pat was my first cousin who spent many Sunday’s diners with me when we were children at our Grand Parents. Pat and her husband Pete took us by the the old home place a couple of years ago. Pat was also in our wedding, the 63rd anniversary which we are celebrating tomorrow. We didn’t have as much contact as I would like in later years as we were in different states.

  6. Joan Black March 8, 2020 at 11:16 am - Reply

    Pat was my first cousin along with her brother Pete. I spent one whole summer with them in Clinton. She was a beautiful person both inside and out. I remember going over to her and Petes apartment on Coker Ave. When they were first married. Nothing but good memories, she was a precious person.

  7. Paul Sprenkle March 8, 2020 at 10:29 pm - Reply

    As a longtime childhood friend of Pat’s son Kevin, I enjoyed many a day, night, and meal at her and Pete’s home on Stonehenge with the rest of this fun family—Kathy (Rick), David, Granny, George, and Belle. So many good memories! My condolences go to the whole family as I remember Mrs. Miller. She was such a caring, humorous, and good natured lady who enjoyed her Braves, RC Cola, and HeeHaw, while forever keeping her growing family (and their friends) healthy, happy, and well fed (w/ Pete’s help of course!).
    With much sympathy,
    —paul s

  8. Linda Wagner March 11, 2020 at 12:14 pm - Reply

    As Pete’s first cousin, I knew this marvelous person as Patsy. Since 2002, our extended family has tried to gather at the family homestead in Central Pennsylvania every summer, and having her visit was always a treat! She was always worth more than a few laughs, like the afternoon she and Nancy set out to find us some firewood for our campfire. They ended up stopping at a random man’s house and helped him to carry wood from his basement! Can’t imagine what that PA redneck thought of those septuagenarian Southern Belles!! She was full of love, grace, and advice….. we will miss her terribly. Our love to all of you!

    The Pennsylvania Branch of the Kunsman Family

  9. david miller March 12, 2020 at 2:11 pm - Reply

    I was married to this very special lady for 59 years, and I was in love with her for at least 60. What else can I say? Rest in peace darling.

  10. Joyce Holben June 19, 2021 at 5:45 pm - Reply

    Cousin Patsy,you were the reason I became a nurse. You inspired me since I was a child! I always loved being with you, you are funny,sweet and sassy! I will miss you terribly!! Joy

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