
Sandra Joy Ferguson Kreiser
Jan. 27, 1943 – Dec. 24, 2019
Sandra Joy Ferguson Kreiser, 76, of Richmond, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 24, 2019. Sandra (“Sandy”) was known for her vivacious and charming spirit, her life-long love affair with desserts, and her mastery of all things plant and daylily related. Originally from South Carolina, she moved to Richmond in high school and married Al Kreiser in 1967, who passed away in 1989. Sandy is survived by two daughters, Nikki Scroggs and Maria Kreiser; a grandson, Alex Scroggs; a brother and sister-in-law, Donald and Margaret Ferguson; two sons-in-law, Michael Scroggs and Tom DeFee; various nieces, nephews, and cousins; and many kind friends and neighbors (including several affectionate neighborhood cats, whom she fawned over).
Having been raised by southern orphaned parents who survived the Great Depression, Sandy was thrifty by nature and also knew the loving value of a good meal or treat with family or friends. She took great pleasure in celebrating the feast of life with sweets and chocolate, fried chicken, tomatoes, and the occasional margarita or spicy Bloody Mary. The family (as well as Sandy) often joked that she could make a huge mess in the kitchen simply by preparing a hot dog, but everyone knew that she liked nothing better than to share food (aka love) with her loved ones.
Sandy loved nostalgic antiques–as well as a good bargain–and had an admirable knack for spotting abandoned curbside household items in strange places. Her kitchen collection of tomato-themed knick-knacks and other ephemera was unrivaled. She also enjoyed genealogical research and could sometimes be found on Ancestry.com or making trips to cemeteries to uncover clues from headstones. Around her Northside neighborhood in Bellevue, she was known for her green thumb and backyard full of colorful flowers and daylilies, as well as her help with beautifying local public spaces.
Sandy worked at the Country Club of VA, Investors Savings & Loan, and other businesses over the years (undoubtedly often as the convivial “social glue” of these workplaces). She loved parties, especially around the holiday season, and would frequently parade around her grandson’s house in kooky elf outfits or boisterous Christmas sweaters and antlers in order to make him laugh. As one friend said aptly, she could light up a room with her “spark.” In addition to her unabashed sense of humor, she was also capable of great kindness: in previous years, she took on the role of caretaker and companion for her own parents, Ethel and Ruthel Ferguson, as well as her dear friend William (“Bill”) Kane, Sr.
In her last months, an aggressive lung cancer overtook her, which she fought with great tenacity. Her immediate family would like to express the utmost gratitude to friends, family, hospital staff at St. Mary’s and Henrico Doctor’s, and the hospice workers at Capital Caring who were so kind and compassionate through some very trying times—particularly Christy Ferguson-Snead, Ronnie Snead, Charlotte and Jason Ford, Ola Olateju, Ann Collins, and Lynn Bowling for their loving and talented care with Sandy’s transition from this life.
The family will receive friends Thursday, January 2, from 6 – 8pm at Affinity Funeral Service, 2720 Enterprise Pkwy, Richmond, VA. A funeral service will be held at Noon Friday, January 3 in the funeral home chapel. Interment to follow at Forest Lawn Cemetery.
I was fortunate to get to know Sandy, since she married my former Emory and Henry College roommate, Al Kreiser. The two of them were an amazing couple and family filled with love and music. Sandy was indeed known for her vivacious and charming spirit. Warmest regards and blessings for her family and friends. Bob and Susan
We will miss Sandy, our loving friend and neighbor. We spent hours upon hours conversing over plants in our back yards where she introduced me to the magical evening primrose. She loved our cats and welcomed them into her home whenever they showed up on her front porch. Our sincere condolences to her daughters and family . She will be missed greatly.
Sandy , you crazy , funny , vivacious girl . We will all miss you. I am glad I had the opportunity to cut your hair each and every time for 28 years. . I will miss you always smiling , always looking on the bright side .
She loved her family dearly. Always talking about her girls , and her beloved grandson Alex. So glad I had a friendship with her. Thoughts and prayers for her family.
Love always , Marella Rollston
I so enjoyed my time volunteering with Sandy on the Bellevue Garden Walk Committee. She will be missed by many.
I was blessed to have known Sandy and to have called her my friend. we met through a mutual Friend and through the neighborhood security patrol. Sandy was an ardent gardener, a person always willing to help someone out or to make you laugh. A small bundle of fun and joy.
She will be missed by all who knew her.
My condolences to her family and friends.
Mike LaBelle